In which I am musing on gentlemen

Thanks to the Sartorialist. Scroll down to the entry titled A Graceful Man, A Gentleman. It's a lovely bit of philosophy on being a gentleman. I am a very lucky girl--I live with two extremely fine gentlemen who are very careful to show their graceful ways on a daily basis. What about up and coming gentlemen, I wonder? Are boys being taught to be gracious and thoughtful these days?